I know, I know. I’ve been harping on this one for awhile now.

I just don’t like it when I hear stories from my clients or design partners who have been bending over backwards for someone so long and so far, that they risk breaking their back, rhetorically speaking.

So, when I saw this article called “Customers Can Be Wrong” at 3tailer, I had to share it with you.

One woman who frequently flew on Southwest, was constantly disappointed with every aspect of the company’s operation. In fact, she became known as the “Pen Pal” because after every flight she wrote in with a complaint.

She didn’t like the fact that the company didn’t assign seats; she didn’t like the absence of a first-class section; she didn’t like not having a meal in flight; she didn’t like Southwest’s boarding procedure; she didn’t like the flight attendants’ sporty uniforms and the casual atmosphere.

Her last letter, reciting a litany of complaints, momentarily stumped Southwest’s customer relations people. They bumped it up to Herb’s [Kelleher, CEO of Southwest] desk, with a note: ‘This one’s yours.’

In sixty seconds, Kelleher wrote back and said, ‘Dear Mrs. Crabapple, We will miss you. Love, Herb.’”

Wasn’t that great? Herb’s response illustrates exactly what we should do when we have a customer who refuses to be happy.

Alex at PositiveSharing.com has a list of Top 5 reasons why the maxim “the customer is always right” is actually wrong.

Here are my thoughts as a WAHM on his reasons:

1. It makes employees unhappy.

You may think this doesn’t apply to you because you are a solopreneur — no employees. But you’re forgetting someone — YOU. I have heard many stories of women who started a business, doing what they love, serving others. They were providing great service.

But then the jerks came along and demanded more than they paid for, bellyached when things didn’t go they way they wanted them to, nevermind that this is not what they’d paid for.

Just last week, one of my design partners had a client purchase one template. By the end of two months, my partner had created five templates for different sections of her site and the client was complaining that things were taking too long. Well — one template normally takes two weeks. Five templates — we’re looking at a little more than two months! This client still had only paid for one template.

Had my partner stood by the customer is always right maxim, she would still be working on the site, creating new templates and losing money every minute for a client who did not know what she wanted and was never going to be happy.

2. It gives abrasive customers an unfair advantage.

If you think that all customers are going to be so happy with your product that they’ll never even dream of uttering a complaint, must less make unreasonable demands in abusive and uncivilized ways — you are wrong.

You can have the best product in your industry and there will be someone who doesn’t like it. Interestingly enough, the more successful you become, the more of these abrasive customers you will find.

You must remember that no one has a right to treat you with disrespect and to demand more than they have paid for. Respect yourself and get rid of those whiners!

3. Some customers are bad for business

Respect and dignity, the terms Alex uses in his post, are more important than money. If you are wanting to be treated rudely and disrespectfully, go get a job on Hell’s Kitchen.

Otherwise, this is your business. You get to decide you who work with. Pick those people who have great attitudes, respect you and WANT to work with you.

4. It results in WORSE customer service.

When you give yourself the power to say no to a customer, to tell them that you no longer wish to do business with them, you improve your customers service. Here’s why:

• You’ll be able to care more about other people, including customers
• You’ll have more energy
• You will be happy, which means more fun to talk to and interact with
• You will be more motivated

On the other hand, if you are constantly dealing with customers who try to run over you, you’ll quickly become demoralized:

• You are not valuing yourself
• You’re telling yourself that being treated fairly is not important
• You’ll convince yourself that you have no right to respect from customers
• You’ll have to put up with everything from customers

If you were an employee of your company, handling your customers, would you want to work for you?

5. Some customers are just plain wrong.

There. I said it. (Again, right? LOL!)

Alex puts it like this:

The fact is that some customers are just plain wrong, that businesses are better of without them, and that managers siding with unreasonable customers over employees is a very bad idea, that results in worse customer service.

And in my words:

The fact that some customers are just plain wrong, that businesses are better off without them and that you siding with unreasonable customers over your own rights as a human being is a very bad idea, that results in worse customer service.

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